A pervert's reboot

Hello everyone, it has been a VERY long time since I posted here. It's strange, I feel like NO ONE blogs anymore in the podcast age. But maybe this can still be a great way to get my thoughts out, reflect on where I am in 2024 as a leather loving, BDSM practicing fetishist and where I want to go. I was thinking about doing a podcast but I need more time to think about it, it may happen or it may not. To be quite honest, I am surprised I am still on this journey considering where I have been and the highs lows I have experienced. It's the lows that I reflect on a lot and that gets me to thinking about when this journey of exploration may end. But for now, I am grateful for the path I am on.  As I look at my last entry, I last wrote 10 years ago. We have been on a collective ride since that time. I've been serving a beautifully cruel and seductive Mistress . Mistress Fontaine means so much to me, She has molded me and has solidified my devotion as Her leather slut toy. Her fi...

Good day friends, I thought that today I would blog briefly because this space has been so sorely neglected! Not much has changed in my world, the earth keeps spinning and I keep loving leather! I feel like I say so much on Twitter these days that maybe there is not much I can say on this space. But 140 characters only allows you to say a lot with so little, therefore you have to be savvy with your words. I think over the last few years, I am beginning to approach that level of savvy required for a tweeter to be effective but I have so much farther to go! Since I last blogged, my social media has expanded, contracted, expanded and contracted again. I think the last last downsize my be temporary for a while. I need a new phone and I am trying to figure out how that may happen. But Twitter is still @buspimp (main account) and @thepervertpope (back-up). My tumblr is still up, not as active on it but you can check out all that i'm perving over. 'm also on Instagram as Buspimp. Fe...

Hello all, long time no blog. Life has a funny way of keeping you from things that you want to do in order to do the things you need to do. I'm in no way a fashion observer, I really don't keep up too much with trends I only notice fashion has changed when I can't find clothes that I like or fit properly. Now it seems the trend in men's clothing is slim fit. I am way too built to be wearing tight clothes on a day to day basis. Now when it comes to fetish wear, the tighter the better! I feel that enhances the feel, sensation and the fun that you are having alone or with someone else! Leather fashion has come and gone over the years and now it seems to have snuck back into mainstream fashion and it's being worn by all types of women of all ages. Back in the day, Joan Collins was so mean and bitchy on Dynasty but she wore the hell out of some leather, as well as a young Heather Locklear (who continues to wear it and look good!) And now today, I found that legend...

The movie My Mistress starring Emmanuelle Beart (Mission Impossible) was released at the end of 2014 as an independent film that had received critical acclaim at the Melbourne International Film Festival. I remember seeing the preview on twitter through the movie's twitter account ( @MyMistressMovie ) and as a fetishist it was very visually stunning with the fetishwear alone, but the truncated S&M scenes that were weaved throughout the preview were a nice hook that would bring most in but leave them unsatisfied if that was all they were looking for. This movie was a nice trip into the minds of two people, both in different stations in life dealing with different types of pain. As the dominatrix Maggie, Beart told the young Charlie that her job was to make others forget about their pain, but little did he know the pain in her heart as he struggled with his feelings for her and his own pain.  Overview: Charlie, a sixteen year old was very independent but had no idea ...

It has certainly been a long time since I last laid out some words on this blog. Life can sure just make things difficult in so many ways that it doesn't allow one time to just write. In the past, I had a very vibrant blog that in hindsight I should have kept up and going. But life happened and I deleted it without keeping the entries in another form. This blog was a way to resurrect that and to keep a running journal on my thoughts in kink and fetish. Something prompted me to go looking for some old photos of when I crossdressed. In my last post  I talked about what got me curious about wearing women's clothes and my first experiments. As I got older and was able to dress in a space of my own I did for about 4 years. There was something very freeing about it and it did give me some new perspectives on what women go through to look nice for us dudes as well as how it made me feel in regards to my likes as a kinky person. I was excited to find what I did, although there were way...

I saw this pic on Facebook the other day. I laughed but then all of my neurons fired and memories were jogged from days past. As a teenager, I wasn't really aware of how deep the fetish that I had for leather was. In junior high, I loved seeing girls in leather bomber jackets but the first time I saw a leather skirt, I was going nuts inside. I don't think my young mind knew how to handle it. (In some ways, I don't think my now 40 something mind can still handle it but anyway) What I didn't know was that I wanted to know what wearing leather felt like, but I didn't have anything that I could wear. So I found cleaner garment bags, you know the long clear plastic bags and I cut holes in for my head and arms and I put it on. It was kind of weird but a bit restricting. Overall, it did the trick for a short moment. I needed something much more restrictive and after looking, I found bags similar to what you see in the photo that I could manipulate just carefully enough t...